Lealailepule Edward Cowley is of Samoan descent. His Chiefly title Lealailepule comes from the proverb 'o le ala i le pule o le tautua' which translates to ‘the path to leadership is through service’. As drag artiste Buckwheat, Edward is a high-profile and much loved entertainer. Interacting with diverse audiences, Edward/Buckwheat has opened minds and positively changed perceptions about the rainbow community. As a health educator and advocate, Edward has served the community in many ways, including being at the forefront of tobacco control and cessation support programmes, and through wellbeing campaigns for the Pasifika community. Edward previously spent nearly a decade working for New Zealand Aids Foundation, now known as the Burnett Foundation Aotearoa.
Edward lives in Tāmaki Makaurau with his husband Peter and is father to three beautiful daughters, aged 33, 8 and 6 years.
At the heart of Edward’s words is the Samoan proverb - ‘O le i’o i mata o le tama o le teine – The pupil of the brother’s eye is his sister.’ This proverb refers to the centrality of women within aiga Samoa (Samoan families). It refers to the inherent strength and wisdom of the many women surrounding you in a Samoan family, and the importance of honouring and protecting their role.
For Edward, growing up in a family with strong matriarchal lines has created the foundation of his approach to life and the way he navigates within both Samoan and Palagi (European) culture. To elevate, honour and respect the role of women has been hard-wired into his being from a young age and continues through the generations.
“Those seeds were planted a long time ago” Edward says, “and they become more important as you get older and as your children get older. Thinking about what sort of world I want my daughters to live in and how I can help shape the way they navigate through life, firstly I want them to be strong within themselves as young women and then, being born and growing up in Aotearoa, I want them to understand the meaning of aiga Samoa – to have a powerful sense of the intergenerational strength of women being passed on.”
Te Reo Glossary
ākonga
student, pupil
alofa
love, affection (Cook Islands Māori language)
Aotearoa
New Zealand
aroha
love, affection
haere rā
goodbye, farewell
hapū
subtribe, part of a kinship group
ira tangata
term used for intersex in a Māori context
irawhiti
term used for transgender in a Māori context
Itāria
Italy
iwi
extended kinship group descended from a common ancestor and associated with a distinct territory in Aotearoa
kairangahau
researcher
kaitiaki
guardian
kaitiakitanga
guardianship, stewardship
kia kaha ngā wāhine toa
be strong woman warriors
kia ora
hello, greetings
kia orana
hello, greetings (Cook Islands Māori language)
kōrero
conversation, discussion
kuia
female elder
mahi
work
māmā
mother, mum
mana
status, prestige, authority,
Māngere
a major suburb in South Auckland, New Zealand
Māori
Indigenous people of Aotearoa New Zealand
mauri
life force, life principle
moana
ocean, sea
Ōtautahi
Christchurch, city in South Island, New Zealand
Ōtepoti
Dunedin, city in South Island, New Zealand
pākeha
New Zealander of European/foreign descent
peka
branch (of a tree, river, organisation)
Pōneke
Wellington, Capital of New Zealand
rangatahi
youth, young people
takatāpui
queer, gay, rainbow community
Tāmaki Makaurau
Auckland, city in North Island, New Zealand
tapu
sacred, prohibited
tautoko
to support, advocate
Te Kāhui Tika Tangata
Human Rights Commission, New Zealand
Te Kaunihera Wahine o Aotearoa
National Council of Women of New Zealand
Te Kotahitanga
Autonomous Māori Parliament from 1892 to 1902
Te Moana-Nui-ā-Kiwa
the Pacific Ocean
te reo
the Māori language
Te Ropu Wahine Maori Toko i te Ora
Māori Women’s Welfare League
Te Wāhi Wāhine o Tāmaki Makaurau
Auckland Women’s Centre
tikanga
protocol, correct procedure
wāhine
woman, women
wāhine kaha
strong woman/women
waiata
song, chant
waiata taitoko
song of support usually sung after a speech
wairua
spirit, soul
whakapapa
genealogy, lineage
whānau
family, extended family group
whare
house, building